In light of the timetable picking and the class bidding process through the crappy SIM system, the time to return to school will dawn on me in less than 2 months. Yes, I'm eager to start my learning journey and of course finish this degree soon enough to enjoy my potential nuptial celebrations. Heading back to school also means a degree of drama that has to be taken care of.
Of course the last few semesters have taught me well on school drama. One thing I have learnt is sometimes it's not best to actually hate just to gain favor. Perhaps hate is a rather strong word, maybe politically disagree. No doubt we get our "leaders" and "followers" in every social situation. But is it even worth it to actually disagree about a person just because an alpha character assumes vent with this person. Oh, and if you're thinking I'm writing with regard to any person; the answer is no. This is an entry about things I have learnt outside the lecture halls and textbooks. Before I start to digress, we do agree that sometimes in best interests it's better to lay low and maintain a neutral image. Well, I would just like to point out - be neutral and stand strong to your own moral principles.
Recently, a friend told me that I have become a more normal person. This person meant that me having a boyfriend was normal, and this guy was not to be found in the vicinity of school was another thing normal as well. Perhaps I do have to agree with this train of thought. How can one be dating someone that's your colleague or classmate when work or school is still in progress?
Well, my guy's a senior from poly which means everything that ties us before is deemed to me as "ex". He once asked me if I would ever consider working side by side with him. Almost immediately my answer was no and will still be a no. I happen to believe that you (I) can't work with friends or family. Once I tried working with a close friend of mine. It didn't turn out well. I guess when one has that extra tier of relationship established with this person, it just seems a little hard to be more impartial to one's own judgment and expectations. Humans are creatures that often like to take things for granted. And there's no point in denying that or even trying to counter-proof this point. Perhaps so, sub-consciously I just refused to put in any good word for friends when it comes to employment hunting.
My point here is rather simple. 1 tier relationships are pretty straightforward; father - daughter, boyfriend - girlfriend etc. 2 tier relationships are simply complicated; father - daughter + employer - employee, boyfriend - girlfriend + classmates etc. Sometimes the lines between 2 tier relationships get blurred and we tend to lose focus in the secondary or even worse the primary roles we play in. Of course anyone can argue that love is something when it happens it happens. Then I guess if you're not so lucky and get it in 2 tiers, extra work has to be done. Well, that's life.
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Biography
Zelda.
Yes, that's my legitimate name. You got a problem with that?
1959 Vintage Mini Cooper.
Vintage Vespa with A* plate.
Vintage Cameras of any kind.
BMW Z4 Roadster.
YSL Oversea bag.
Leica M8.
Hermes Birkin in Purple.
A year's supply of Jimmy Choo Couture.
A year's supply of Manolo Blahnik.
The entire color range of Varina from Ferragamo.
More shoes.
Georg Jensen's Vivianna watch (Gold).
That dream job.
